We use the words soul mate and karma around here a lot, and there’s a reason for that.
As necessary as it is to use astrology to help lead us in our daily lives, there is more to the equation of an enlightened and fulfilled life than just astrology. Karma is one of those things, and if you are seriously on a quest to the most abundant love life possible, it is something you really need to practice every day, in addition to seeking answers from the cosmos.
This is even more true if you are hoping to repair, rekindle, or re-attract a soul mate love, because soul mate love is based on unconditional love. The ribbon of unconditional love, shaped like the infinity symbol, is one that can only go on when the energy of karma keeps it flowing.
Sound complicated? It’s not. Just follow these eight very simple laws of karma that will help you harness love astrology to its fullest potential.These tips are guaranteed to repair, rekindle, and attract love, if you play your cards right.
Are you ready to spin your karmic wheel of fortune? Here’s how…
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8 Ways to Use Karma for Love
1. The 3 R’s.
If you are talking about karma, you want to start right at the top. The 3 R’s are straight from the Dalai Lama himself, and can be applied to karma and love. Respect your “Self” first. This is the toughest for many people. Respect for others, and finally, a responsibility for all of your own actions.
Karma is about getting what you put out , but that means you must be held responsible for every choice you make. When you are, the rewards follow. This is even more important when you are talking soul mate love.
So, love your “Self” first, then others, and then take responsibility for your actions and choices. When you do, your Heart chakra opens up to that unconditional love you are seeking.
2. Focus on Growing
Focusing on negative things is bad, and focusing on positive things is good. Why is this so important? Because what you focus on grows.
Ever notice that when you are having a bad day, the more you talk about it the worse your day gets? Of course it’s important to talk about your bad emotions, and vent. Just make sure that after you let your feelings out, attempt to actively shift your mind to more positive thoughts.
Get it out and let it out and give it back to the Universe. Don’t hang onto negative energy, and keep giving it back to every person you meet that day, or your vibrations of unconditional love will go haywire, and soul mates will not go anywhere near that.
3. Fail, & Fail Again
You will hear gurus say, “Failure’s not an option.” If you do, ask them for your money back.
Einstein tried over two thousand experiments before he developed the theory of relativity. Stephen King had over 217 rejection letters before he sold his first novel, Carrie. If you try succeeding and stop because you aren’t succeeding, that is not the sign to give up. That is a sign that you just haven’t tried the right thing to succeed yet.
When it comes to karma, failure is not just an option, it is a must because these are the critical lessons you need to learn to grow. We try so hard to go into relationships not showing how “damaged” we are, or how much “emotional baggage” we have. That’s not real, and that is not authentic. We have all failed at something. We all have baggage.
What have we done with our life since then? That is what is important when it comes to attracting soul mate love. Your soul mate wants the most authentic version of yourself that you can bring to the table. That means not acting perfect, but proudly showing your true self, failures and all.
If you fail, flip the silver lining on that cloud and realize, that’s all part of life, and finding your one true love. If your love life isn’t going the way you want right now, it may be because you haven’t embraced this yet.
4. Embrace Your Emotions
Someone once said that the most difficult things to say in life are:
- I need help
- I love you
- I’m sorry
Are you turned off by these phrases? If so, you need to flip your perspective. Search for these answers deep in your soul: Do you need to say I love you more to those you care about? Do you need to ask for help more? Do you need to apologize?
These are normal emotions. You are a human being.
Attracting your soul mate also means being able to express these three things.
Embracing your true emotions is all a part of karmic reward, especially when it comes to loving another soul. This is the beautiful thing about karma.
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5. Communicate Openly
In your love life, and with your soul mate, you can and you should communicate with them as much as possible.
If you don’t currently have a love interest in your life, write down how you might communicate with your soul mate once you meet them, and commit to being an open and transparent partner.
Another way to attract your soul mate or have them come back into your life is to find a way to share knowledge in the world about something that means something to you. Hop on some forums and share advice and tips on things that you like with like-minded friends and communities, write an article, or volunteer in a book drive.
What knowledge you share and how you share it is not important. A simple post on your Facebook page expressing one of your beliefs is a great start. Deepak Chopra says that sharing knowledge is one of the easiest random acts of kindness you can perform, because you better someone’s life with a very simple free gift that they can never have taken from them.
Rekindle, reignite, and reconnect with your soul mate by sharing knowledge in an area that makes you feel good.
6. Let Go
This is another very strong and firm Buddhist principle when it comes to unconditional love and soul mates. This law of karma is most important for those who have separated from their soul mate temporarily. We feel like we need them back or we will die, and so we let this ego drive all of our actions.
It is that ego that winds up texting someone fifty times and driving them even farther away.
If you truly love someone, and truly believe they are your soul mate, you have to let them go on occasion. If you know in your heart they will come back then they will. But you need to make sure that your love for that person exceeds your need to be happy and have them in your life right now. This is true if you have your soul mate in your love now too.
7. Be Love, Get Love
This is the one Law of Attraction principle that is most commonly known. It is said in a number of different ways by different gurus. This is your basic, “what goes around comes around” karmic lesson that many people forget.
This isn’t just about being nice occasionally because it looks good, and it’s good karma. It’s about genuinely being a nice and a good person each and every day, even through small acts. When every act that you do comes from a place of love, you are in the highest realm of karmic possibility. It means being compassionate in all things.
The coffee barrista that just dropped an F bomb on you by accident? She’s clearly having a bad day and establishing good karma means realizing that it’s not about you, and loving her anyways.
Is it true that the coffee barrista has nothing to do with your love life? No, that’s not true. Every single person you meet has something to do with your love life. If you are cranky and mean to everyone all the time, but are confused as to why you might be single, this might be something to think about.This one is common karmic sense, but we all need this reminder once in a while.
Practice the art of compassion in some way, every single day, and your soul mate will come your way.
8. Don’t Try too Hard
Karma and its rewards are based on faith. You can’t not build karma, while worrying about the outcome. The worry negates the karma, because you are secretly fearful that it may not work out so good after all.
Remember that faith and karma go hand in hand, you have to believe in it, or it isn’t going to work. When you engage in your relationship in a way that feels like you are trying too hard, that is a sign. Karma is not supposed to be difficult. Unconditional love is the easiest feeling in the world to enjoy if you let go of the worry and the fear. So let those things go, and replace your worry with faith, and the rewards, well, we hope you are going to come back and share those.
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