What’s the first thing you think of when you hear the word “Love”?
- Flowers and a box of chocolates?
- A romantic date?
- Home-owning and building a nest with your partner?
- Experiencing your emotional needs met in a relationship?
- Mother-child love?
Whichever your definition of love may be, there’s no denying that as humans, we all have a fundamental need to give and receive it.
This is your one-stop guide to overcoming the hurdles that get in the way of manifesting the love that you deserve. So let’s get started and crack the love code together.
A 4-Step Ritual for Manifesting Love
We’ve seen it in movies—the magic formula that leads two protagonists to a fairytale-perfect happily ever after. Except life is rarely like the movies!
If you’re looking to manifest love, a good place to start would be to examine your beliefs.
All too often, the emphasis on “the perfect partner” is because of being influenced by subconscious beliefs (which we borrowed from previous generations, our early childhood, and/or movies).
Use the following ritual to help you step into a vibration that screams of love.
1. Identify How You Are Unconsciously Pushing Away Love
If you haven’t had much luck with dating or feeling emotionally fulfilled in your relationships, this is a good time to pause and consider, “Is there meaning to this madness?”
Too often, we look to the outside when things don’t go according to plan.
But did you know? Relationships behave as a mirror to show us our own reflection of our unconscious mind.
The one spiritual truth is that “The Universe responds to your frequency.” You might have made a vision board to find the perfect partner. However, if your inner vibration is speaking a different language, chances are, all your efforts might be in vain.
Learn what your inner vibration with respect to love is with these top 10 signs.
Top 10 Signs You Feel Unworthy of Love
- Your relationships/dating life is extremely short-lived.
- You take on the role of a giver and yet feel emotionally lonely in a relationship.
- Your attachment style is either anxious or avoidant.
- You fear intimacy.
- Vulnerable conversations are a no-entry zone for you.
- You have separation anxiety or hold a deep-seated abandonment wound.
- You are unable to effectively communicate your thoughts and emotions for fear of conflict.
- You or your partner steps into the “Oh-hell-no!” Zone of Infidelity.
- You often resort to oversharing details of your life to establish a connection.
- You are a people-pleaser and are unable to set healthy boundaries.
Identifying these traits can feel shocking at first, and you might even detest yourself or go down a guilt trip.
2. Use Affirmations for Manifesting Love
Congratulations on getting through a baseline level of shadow work! Now it’s time to get in touch with your emotions.
Fear within our Root chakra and Heart chakra prevents us from being vulnerable. It becomes impossible for us to show up as our true authentic selves when we harbor so much fear, which ultimately impacts true connection.
“Why am I holding onto fear?” and then release this trapped emotion from within your body.
Try These Affirmations for Manifesting Love:
Sit in your favorite cozy nook. Light some candles or incense. Set the mood for going within.
Inhale-exhale calmly and follow the natural rhythm of your body.
Place both palms on your Heart chakra and say –
“I welcome healthy, nurturing relationships into my life.”
“I am open to receiving the love that I deserve.”
“I am worthy of love.”
“I am loved, and I am love.”
“I am being divinely guided towards a loving relationship.”
3. Try Visualization
Continue your meditative state from the above step. It’s now time to step into visualization.
What does a day-in-my-life look like with the love of your life? Step into your imagination and create bit-by-bit exactly what love and romance look like for you.
Pay special attention to the details – what are you wearing on this particular day? How does your partner make you feel? What does your vibe feel like?
Visualization is a powerful tool that helps you push the pedal on manifestation.
4. Use These Crystals for Manifesting Love
Crystals that help enhance the energy of the Heart chakra are powerful tools that can be used for love manifestation. These are a few that you can try:
- Rose quartz
- Smoky quartz
- Red jasper
Wrap your palm around one of these crystals and place it on your heart center. Visualize energy being transferred from the crystal to you while you say your affirmations.
Read next: 8 Crystals for Love & Romance
Remember You are Worthy of Love
Remember that the Universe loves you unconditionally and wants the best for you.
If you’re experiencing delays and frustrations in your love life, know that these obstacles are well-intentioned. They are nudging you to vibe higher so you can meet the person who is willing to make your life extra special. The wait is worth it!
“What you are seeking is also seeking you.” – Rumi
Meanwhile, use this guide to help you step into the right vibration for manifesting the love you deserve.
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